How often do you get caught up in the need for more?
I don’t mean the feeling that you’re “made for more,” or “here for more,” nothing associated with your purpose or reason for being.
I mean that constant state of chasing, wanting, or longing. That feeling of nothing ever being “enough.”
It could even be a state that you’ve been in and haven’t acknowledged until reading it this moment.
I come to you with this without a single lick of judgment, as I too have been in this state for much of my life before. The feeling of always being close to the finish line but never reaching it, or of waiting for something big to happen that’s going to make it all make sense or really set the ball in motion. The truth is, if we choose to, we can live like this forever.
We live in a world conditioned to feel this way as it keeps us in the mindset of consuming or chasing after the next purchase that will be the next “fix.”
The truth is, only we get to CHOOSE what “enough” is.
Only we can choose to celebrate each and every achievement throughout our lives, every small win, every success, and even every learning experience that someone else may deem a “failure.” When we choose to celebrate and acknowledge each of these moments, even as small as enjoying a hot coffee in the morning instead of a lukewarm one… that is when we choose to let go of the longing, chasing and wanting more.
We lean into the satisfaction of simply living, of things not always being in constant motion or feeling like we’re “putting in the hard work.”
We lean into the femininity of our life, loving it equally as much as the masculinity.
Our masculine energy is our force, our action, our “doing.”
Meanwhile, our feminine energy is our flow, our slowing down and turning inward, our “being.”
Our lives must be a healthy balance of both of these energies in order for us to let go of being on the constant search for more or stuck in a repetitive state of longing for all that we do not have, blind to all that we do have.
When we finally allow for a healthy balance and expression of our Masculine, when we do the same for, tune into and honour our Feminine, we realize that we really do hold all of the wisdom we need within us. We surrender to knowing that we always have held that wisdom within us, and learn to honour and respect the moments that just our “being” is enough.
I invite you to take a deep breath and feel into your body.
Does it feel balanced?
What is “enough” to you?
Can you allow yourself to surrender to just being for a moment?
Can you allow yourself to feel into what that feels like throughout your days moving forward?
Can you welcome in the frequency of satisfaction?
Can you let it vibrate through your being, really taking it in and soaking it up?
I invite you to take a look at my episode of the Path of Alignment to deep dive into understanding and aligning your Feminine and Masculine energies. You'll be led through a guided meditation through the second half of the episode.
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Watch the episode here. So much love, Becky xx
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